Beyond Love
A 9-Week relationship deepening Program for Adult Children & Parents with 3-day Entheogenic Sacrament Retreat
Online Weekly 90-minute calls Feb 5 - Apr 2
In-Person Retreat March 5-7 near SF Bay Area, CA
Beyond Love is for adult children and parents ready to recenter their relationship in depth and connection.
You are both willing to go deeper. What's been missing isn't willingness — it's a structure built for real change.
Break the patterns, together. Most healing work asks you to do it alone, then hope it changes the relationship. This is an opportunity to do it as two people within community with expert guidance.
9 Weeks to create a new way of being together. This isn’t just a workshop where you have an experience then go back to normal. This is a multi-month program to reset the relationship.
Who is This For?
This retreat is for adult child and parent pairs who:
Have already done real work on the relationship and are ready to go deeper.
Sense that some of what stands between you can't be reached through talking alone.
Are curious about ceremony and communion practice as a path to relational healing.
What You’ll Experience
Held in an intentional, carefully facilitated container that includes a guided entheogenic sacrament communion ceremony, you'll:
Meet your parent or your child as a whole person, beyond the role they've played in your story
Soften the defenses that keep you both locked into familiar, exhausting patterns
Experience direct, embodied repair that doesn't depend on finding the right words
This is not therapy, and it's not a workshop — it's a ceremonial journey, built specifically for the parent-child relationship.
your facilitators
Kan Yan
Kan is an executive coach and facilitator with deep expertise in relational healing, leadership development, and mindfulness-based coaching. A Harvard-trained lawyer and former McKinsey consultant, he has spent hundreds of days in silent meditation retreat, and facilitated workshops for executive teams as well as authentic communication groups and men’s groups. Kan created Parents Reimagined to help adult children transform their relationships with their parents, blending psychological insight, somatic awareness, and practical coaching tools.
Rām Massoudi
Rām Massoudi is an ordained minister and holistic self-realization guide devoted to building spiritual community with depth, coherence, and clear direction. After decades in senior executive leadership in high tech, guiding complex organizational transformation, he turned fully toward his deepest calling: helping expand consciousness, reduce suffering, and realize spiritual freedom. Grounded in decades of inner exploration, lived experience, and direct practitioner work—along with over a decade of multidisciplinary training spanning neuroscience, psychology, somatic, energetic, shamanic, and consciousness-based modalities—his work addresses the fundamental human split between psyche, body, and spirit.
Rām was also interviewed on the Parents Reimagined Podcast with his son. The episode is here.
Program Details
| Date | Event | Duration | With |
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| Fri, Feb 5, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Fri, Feb 12, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Fri, Feb 19, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Fri, Feb 26, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Mon, Mar 1, 2027 | Ceremony Prep Call | 90 min | Rām |
| Fri–Sun, Mar 5–7, 2027 | Ceremony Weekend | 3 days | Rām |
| Wed, Mar 10, 2027 | Ceremony Harvest / Check-In Call | 90 min | Rām |
| Fri, Mar 12, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Fri, Mar 19, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Fri, Mar 26, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
| Fri, Apr 2, 2027 | Group Session | 90 min | Kan |
financial contribution
Participants are required to register and pay for the online program and the weekend ceremony separately as they are two distinct programs offered jointly
Online Parents Reimagined Program (per person)
Minimum: $1,500
Community: $1,500
Sustainer: $2,000
3-Day In-Person Entheogenic Sacrament Retreat (per person)
Minimum: $2,000
Community: $2,250
Sustainer: $2,500
Refunds: Prior to January 21 2027, you'll receive a full refund. From Jan 21 to Jan 28 2027, you'll receive a 50% refund of what you've paid. After Jan 28 2027, there are no refunds.
Reach out about Scholarship Seats available for financially limited participants
Program Details
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Choose the tier that most honestly reflects your financial reality — income, savings, and overall flexibility. There's no test and no documentation required.
Minimum — the Community rate would create real financial strain right now. Contribute at the foundational level, supported by those contributing above.
Community — the standard rate. If you have meaningful discretionary income and this is a stretch but doable, this is where to land.
Sustainer — you're able to contribute beyond what this costs you personally. That difference directly funds scholarship seats and helps sustain access for others in the community.
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This isn't a single workshop where you have an experience and then go back to normal. It's a multi-month arc — four sessions to build trust and readiness, the ceremonial weekend itself, then four more sessions to integrate what shifted — built to reset the relationship, not just visit it.
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Held in an intentional, carefully facilitated container that includes a guided entheogenic sacrament communion ceremony, you'll meet your parent or child as a whole person beyond the role they've played in your story, soften the defenses that keep you both locked into familiar patterns, and experience direct, embodied repair that doesn't depend on finding the right words.
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After you apply, you'll complete intake forms and a screening call with Rām before enrollment is final. Enrollment closes two weeks before the program begins, so early outreach helps. If a health condition or medication means you can't safely receive the sacrament, you can still attend the retreat weekend without it (or with a reduced dose), at a reduced cost — we'll talk through the options together at intake.
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Then this isn't the program for you right now — both people have to choose it.
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There is no expectation to have prior experience working with entheogenic sacraments.
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Every participant is medically and psychologically screened before admission, Sacrament is served light and individually calibrated, and the holding ratio never falls below one to three. Rām can decline or remove anyone at any point, including during the Ceremony. That authority is the safety mechanism.